I experienced a rollercoaster of emotions, unable to sleep, eat, think straight along with being worried about my future and how I would cope on my own with 2 young children and no family support around me. How could I have missed the signs? Was I ignoring them? How could this be happening to me? I felt ashamed, rejected and very sad.

This was during a major house renovation, as a result living in a caravan (in the garden for 18 months). Having to manage the remainder of the house build, to then having to sell it (after all the hardship, etc faced).

I realised that I needed some emotional support so I sought counselling, but I didn’t find that this helped me move forward, as I had friends and family who I could talk to, so I didn’t feel this added any more for me. I was grieving a loss of my marriage, my relationship, my old life, our home, along with memories.

I represented myself during my own acrimonious divorce, contact and the financial proceedings which took over 2 years of battling in court (during COVID), I have too been where you are, I know what you are going through and I can empathise with your situation.

I became a breakup & divorce coach because I want to be the person I wish I had during the time that I needed the support, I want to help others going through this emotional turmoil.

Through my legal experience and legal (court experience) background, I can also provide support and guidance through the practical challenges faced, including the court process and forms.